How to attract LOVE into your life :)

... Look around you! People are 'coupling up'! Couples are smiling and looking forward to their Christmas celebration together... they look forward to celebrating a New Year together.... And what after?

If you are one of those like I was a year ago, single, upset and asking myself constantly 'Why am I single?' and 'Why do I not have that special somebody to celebrate all those festive seasons with?' Then there is a Valentine! The head goes round and more stresses are piling up...

Were shall I start... Do you know who you want your love to be? I mean did you actually thought what kind of partner would you like to have or did you desperately wished for just 'anyone'? As if you desperately wished for 'anyone' that is the reason plenty of people are around you but you do not notice them as they are not anyone special they are exactly 'anybody'!

Start by thinking who you want your Love to be! A guy or a girl? Straight or gay? Tall or how short? What colour hair? What profession? What income? What else is important to you? Religion? Upbringing? Married or single? Has children? Wants to have children? Wants marriage? Loves sports? Loves reading? Into horse riding? Into motorcycles? Hopeless romantic? Sex addict?... Write everything what comes into your head down (at least 100! - the more the better!).

Then think again... Choose 50 most important characteristics! Yes 50! The more you are thinking about the person you want to have in your life the closer 'the Love of your Life' is to you! Then think again... And number the qualities in the priority. For example if you were given the partner which would be the quality of your 'Love' you absolutely could not live without? Number it as number 1. Then choose the next one as if you were given an extra chance and number the quality as number 2... and so on.

Then write out 10 most important and try to create an image of such person (visualization). If you can draw - draw! If you can use photoshop - excellent. Once you have succeed on the image start feeling the presence of the person. Try to imagine yourself spending time with the person. What would it feel like? What would you do? What holidays would you spend together? Which friends would you introduce your partner to? Where would you have your romantic walks? Start feeling it! Feel it every morning you wake up and feel it every time you go to sleep. Start feeling your life is - 'as if' you have that very special somebody already in your life. ... you might need to do that for at least few months till you find one or!!! you completely forget!(in which case the most amazing stories are happening!).

And just in case write a request to Santa :-)... sounding approximately like this:

'Dear Santa, I......(write your name here) am thankful for my Love who is...(write all the qualities you expect in your partner) and we are now celebrating our Christmas together! 25.12.10'. Sign it and hide it somewhere in your bedroom! With a huge smile on your face and trust your order to be delivered!!! :)

I wish you lots of love and happiness! ...

I've just celebrated 7 months with my darling and we are very happy together :-) (I know 7 months is not normal to celebrate, but hey! I am a romantic and that is the partner I have wished for!.... So make your own choices :-)...)

Olya.

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